There were three odd jobs my mom always requested of my sister and me: 1) watch for KMart or Sears commercials for a particular photo package, 2) keep an eye out for The Fuller Brush Man, and 3) look for Wandering Jehovah’s Witnesses. My mom had us watch for commercials from Sears or KMart photo studios, and I still have the package memorized: 1 8x10, 2 5x7s, and 16 wallets. Usually twice each year there were sales on that package, and the commercials often came during the breaks on PBS. I remember Amyre Makupson talking about the upcoming 12 o’clock WKBD news, and then we were blessed with a commercial for the desired picture package. It was always a fight between my sister and I to whom reached my mother first. Quite often my mom would not have seen the commercial and thus she would not have the phone number necessary to make the appointment. After awhile I would memorize the phone number as well, so that I could tell my mom where to call. I truly loved commercials. Sometimes ask me to recite the Lee Press-On Nail commercial from the 1980s.
My mother also loved having a visit from The Fuller Brush Man, as he always had new room fresheners, or special brushes, and sometimes she would sharpen her knives. He was a novelty to my sister and I, because he pushed a cart down the block calling, “Fuller Brush Man!” The only other service that made us known of their presence was the Ice Cream Man, however, in that case it was a rowdy rendition of “Pop Goes the Weasel.” However, none was as mysterious as the wandering duos of Bible-carrying Jehovah’s Witnesses. Even though they weren't selling pretty brushes, nor taking our picture, these people were fascinating just the same.
Showing posts with label Bonnie. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Bonnie. Show all posts
Monday, August 19, 2013
Wednesday, July 31, 2013
Memories of Bonnie
After some encouragement, I have decided to write a memoir of my journey with Bonnie. The tentative title is "My Faith Through Her Eyes."
I have been writing, as opposed to blogging. Here is the current prologue:
“Don’t say a word, not even a whisper,” my mother said, as she motioned for us to join her on the floor. We immediately fell to the floor, crawled beside my mother, and laid next to her hiding ourselves behind the front door. I tried to peek through the sliver of light shining through the drapes, but my mother immediately covered my eyes with her hands and pulled me closer. “Stay perfectly still,” she softly reiterated. The three of us, concealed by an afghan my sister had grabbed off the couch, could have been mistaken for a pile of laundry left on the living room floor.
I have been writing, as opposed to blogging. Here is the current prologue:
Prologue
“They’re here, girls,” I heard my mother whisper emphatically as she quickly pulled the drapes closed. Her white nightgown glided behind as she ran to secure the drapes closed. As usual, my sister and I were watching cartoons and ignored her plea. “Come on, girls, hurry it up,” my mother scolded as she shut off the television. The sound of panic in her voice assured us she meant business.
“Don’t say a word, not even a whisper,” my mother said, as she motioned for us to join her on the floor. We immediately fell to the floor, crawled beside my mother, and laid next to her hiding ourselves behind the front door. I tried to peek through the sliver of light shining through the drapes, but my mother immediately covered my eyes with her hands and pulled me closer. “Stay perfectly still,” she softly reiterated. The three of us, concealed by an afghan my sister had grabbed off the couch, could have been mistaken for a pile of laundry left on the living room floor.
There was a knock at the door, and fear pricked every nerve in my body. I turned rigidly to look at my sister, and noticed streaks of tears running down her face. This really wasn’t any different from any other day; my sister was always crying or complaining about something. My mother had said they were here. It was our turn. We were next.
I said a silent prayer. I prayed that they would leave us alone, and that we could return to as we were before. But there was another knock, and another - much louder this time. I tried to breathe without making a sound. What if I gave us away? I held my sister’s hand, closed my eyes tightly, and hoped the knocking would stop.
My sister began to squirm under the midsummer heat of the afghan. I began kicking away my sister’s feet, and a sound, barely audible exited with my exhale. My mother’s eyes were round as saucers, as she held her finger over her mouth. She knew we were being as good as two little girls could be in this circumstance. We were on summer vacation, and kids are supposed to be laughing and having fun. Now we were trying to evade them.
We stayed together that way for what seemed like an eternity, but what was most likely two minutes. The knocking ceased, and my mother slowly crawled to the window and gently pulled back the curtain. She sat down and took a deep breath, “They’ve gone girls.” We all smiled and did a collective sigh of relief. They had gone. The Jehovah’s Witnesses had left us a magazine in our mailbox, which assured us freedom for another month.
Friday, May 25, 2012
Bittersweet Bonnie Blog
Bonnie stopped by yesterday, which was really bizarre since I was writing about her earlier. She hadn't stopped over in a couple months, and I was very happy to see her. When the Jehovah Witnesses go door to door they bring someone with them, and most of my visits with Bonnie included other Witnesses. The last few times I have seen her she has been alone. However, since quitting her day job (she worked at Greenfield Village most recently) Bonnie has become a full-time pioneer. A full-time pioneer means you witness 5 days or more per week for 40 hours or more.
Now that Bonnie is a pioneer, she has many new Bible study students. She proudly spoke about them, and I found myself wondering if she was hoping I would be jealous of these new "recruits". I told her I was proud of all that she has done, especially finding new students. When we were studying regularly, Bonnie only had one other student. She wished for more - and I am very happy she got her wish.
As I have written in my last few blogs about her (BONNIE), Bonnie seems to be in a hurry when she says "hi" and gives me the newest publications. However, to remedy that from happening I invited her and Lori in to sit down. Lori was always my favorite guest of Bonnie. I was passed a copy of the publications and then Bonnie read a few scriptures referring to the publication articles. The May Watchtower is about religion and politics and if they should mix. The obvious answer is: no. But of course Bonnie wanted to quiz me to see if I remember when Jesus began to reign as king (1914) and when the Earth would be reborn (a generation from that). She always bragged that I was such a good student. I even joked that I relearned all the books of the Bible this year, due to Zoe's Bible curriculum. Bonnie seemed impressed, and it was during those few moments when I felt connected to her once again.
The connection did not last for long, because she chimed in with the same Witness-to-World conversation. The Witnesses have the truth, and every other religion (no matter what branch) does not. Bonnie knows that I am tied to this "system of things" as the Witnesses call it. I love our Earth, and I love holidays and celebrations with my people. I also like to be reminded that I am a Christian, thus I proudly have a cross "stained glass window" on my front window Evie made.
Regardless of her beliefs, Bonnie refuses to let me parish in the inevitable end of this system of things. Her hope is that I return to a weekly Bible study with her. In the past she has mentioned my children as getting to "come along for the ride" if I had a pure heart and was a true believer (i.e. follower of the Witnesses). But yesterday was probably the nastiest and blunt that she ever has been about her beliefs. Bonnie was reading about how she is not out there to convert me, but rather to show me what the Bible is really saying (not of course what others interpret it to say). She informed me that she recently learned (from the elders no doubt) that a generation is around 100 years give or take. So that with 2014 so close at hand, we need to be prepared for Armageddon. Then she curtly stated, "...and I would hate to see your beautiful little girls not make it to see the new Earth."
At that point, I felt that our relationship had completely turned the wrong corner. Yes, I was happy to see her, but no, I am not going to be strong-armed into returning to a Bible study with her. I know that the Witnesses are trained in how to act at home visits. How do I know this? Well because I went to her Kingdom Hall on a couple occasions. They reenact different situations for the Witnesses to learn and comment. The training seems to promote a lot of conversation about the end times. This focus on the end times is probably the biggest reason I could no longer engage in a Bible study with Bonnie. I realize that there will be an end, because there was a beginning. But to live my life always thinking about the end only contributes to my anxieties and stress.
When Bonnie left I had an "aha" moment; as I really do not need to see her anymore. I might miss her friendship, but our friendship seems to be in conjunction to a Bible study. This was very clear the last time we met up for lunch and Bonnie skirted out of there as soon as she finished eating. She also "broke up" with me on a phone message last summer. I realize now that I am part of "the world" - Satan's world. She is not shunning me, but she also is not going to be part of my life if I cannot succumb back to her truth.
I sincerely hope that I am able to make heads or tails of this relationship as I continue to mesh out my story about her.
Now that Bonnie is a pioneer, she has many new Bible study students. She proudly spoke about them, and I found myself wondering if she was hoping I would be jealous of these new "recruits". I told her I was proud of all that she has done, especially finding new students. When we were studying regularly, Bonnie only had one other student. She wished for more - and I am very happy she got her wish.
As I have written in my last few blogs about her (BONNIE), Bonnie seems to be in a hurry when she says "hi" and gives me the newest publications. However, to remedy that from happening I invited her and Lori in to sit down. Lori was always my favorite guest of Bonnie. I was passed a copy of the publications and then Bonnie read a few scriptures referring to the publication articles. The May Watchtower is about religion and politics and if they should mix. The obvious answer is: no. But of course Bonnie wanted to quiz me to see if I remember when Jesus began to reign as king (1914) and when the Earth would be reborn (a generation from that). She always bragged that I was such a good student. I even joked that I relearned all the books of the Bible this year, due to Zoe's Bible curriculum. Bonnie seemed impressed, and it was during those few moments when I felt connected to her once again.
The connection did not last for long, because she chimed in with the same Witness-to-World conversation. The Witnesses have the truth, and every other religion (no matter what branch) does not. Bonnie knows that I am tied to this "system of things" as the Witnesses call it. I love our Earth, and I love holidays and celebrations with my people. I also like to be reminded that I am a Christian, thus I proudly have a cross "stained glass window" on my front window Evie made.
Regardless of her beliefs, Bonnie refuses to let me parish in the inevitable end of this system of things. Her hope is that I return to a weekly Bible study with her. In the past she has mentioned my children as getting to "come along for the ride" if I had a pure heart and was a true believer (i.e. follower of the Witnesses). But yesterday was probably the nastiest and blunt that she ever has been about her beliefs. Bonnie was reading about how she is not out there to convert me, but rather to show me what the Bible is really saying (not of course what others interpret it to say). She informed me that she recently learned (from the elders no doubt) that a generation is around 100 years give or take. So that with 2014 so close at hand, we need to be prepared for Armageddon. Then she curtly stated, "...and I would hate to see your beautiful little girls not make it to see the new Earth."
At that point, I felt that our relationship had completely turned the wrong corner. Yes, I was happy to see her, but no, I am not going to be strong-armed into returning to a Bible study with her. I know that the Witnesses are trained in how to act at home visits. How do I know this? Well because I went to her Kingdom Hall on a couple occasions. They reenact different situations for the Witnesses to learn and comment. The training seems to promote a lot of conversation about the end times. This focus on the end times is probably the biggest reason I could no longer engage in a Bible study with Bonnie. I realize that there will be an end, because there was a beginning. But to live my life always thinking about the end only contributes to my anxieties and stress.
When Bonnie left I had an "aha" moment; as I really do not need to see her anymore. I might miss her friendship, but our friendship seems to be in conjunction to a Bible study. This was very clear the last time we met up for lunch and Bonnie skirted out of there as soon as she finished eating. She also "broke up" with me on a phone message last summer. I realize now that I am part of "the world" - Satan's world. She is not shunning me, but she also is not going to be part of my life if I cannot succumb back to her truth.
I sincerely hope that I am able to make heads or tails of this relationship as I continue to mesh out my story about her.
Friday, April 20, 2012
Do I really Need a Vacation?
Today I flipped open to another random page in the Daily Spark. Topic 173 is:
I Need a Vacation
The University of the Bahamas has named you one of three finalists for a full scholarship to its College of Vacation and Relaxation Sciences. The winner of the scholarship will be chosen by a review board that will read an essay from each of the three finalists. The essay must start with the sentence, I deserve the scholarship because... Write this essay for the review board.
You would think, reader, that a topic such as this would be a delightful one in which to compose an essay. I just had a deep conversation about "getting away" with my husband, Jim, last weekend. What brought on this conversation you ask? Well, it just so happens that my dear friend, Fairy Tale Mama, went on a little respite last weekend. It was a welcome surprise from her husband, and it definitely got me thinking about the possibility of trading places at that moment.
However, as much as I feel the need to escape sometimes, I don't wish to do it alone. I know this probably sounds insane, coming from a SAHM (stay-at-home-mom), but I think I'd rather run off somewhere WITH my husband (minus the ladybugs). Since Evie has started full-time school on Monday, Wednesday and Friday I am a MUCH more relaxed Mommy. Having that time to get things done around my home (i.e. laundry, dishes, bills, etc) ALONE, makes all the difference.
I recently changed my teaching schedule, and that has ALSO made a huge difference in how I spend my time. I am no longer running home from picking up the ladybugs from school to teach for 4 hours, nor am I teaching ALL day on Saturday. Spreading the teaching up into 4 days has really been the brilliant idea I needed. And, just this week I made the decision to raise my tuition rates this fall. I put together packages of information for my families, which include: an explanation letter, a brief bio of my qualifications, and a new procedures document to sign. On the encouragement of my dear friend, Dana, I also have added an incentive for signing up early (i.e. May) for fall lessons. Each family will receive a $25 voucher off tuition to be used at any point during the school year (September 2012 - May 2013).
Making these changes has taken quite a lot of thought and prayer. I have also spent a lot of time composing the needed documents and creating the files necessary to accomplish goal. But the rewards are going to be stellar, so I cannot wait. I have also made peace with the idea that maybe I will not have all my students return to lessons in the fall. I hope this doesn't happen, but I know that a small increase in tuition can sometimes be what deters people from continuing lessons.
Now onto renegotiating my finances and writing that best seller about Bonnie! :)
I suppose with time we will see what happens.
I Need a Vacation
The University of the Bahamas has named you one of three finalists for a full scholarship to its College of Vacation and Relaxation Sciences. The winner of the scholarship will be chosen by a review board that will read an essay from each of the three finalists. The essay must start with the sentence, I deserve the scholarship because... Write this essay for the review board.
You would think, reader, that a topic such as this would be a delightful one in which to compose an essay. I just had a deep conversation about "getting away" with my husband, Jim, last weekend. What brought on this conversation you ask? Well, it just so happens that my dear friend, Fairy Tale Mama, went on a little respite last weekend. It was a welcome surprise from her husband, and it definitely got me thinking about the possibility of trading places at that moment.
However, as much as I feel the need to escape sometimes, I don't wish to do it alone. I know this probably sounds insane, coming from a SAHM (stay-at-home-mom), but I think I'd rather run off somewhere WITH my husband (minus the ladybugs). Since Evie has started full-time school on Monday, Wednesday and Friday I am a MUCH more relaxed Mommy. Having that time to get things done around my home (i.e. laundry, dishes, bills, etc) ALONE, makes all the difference.
I recently changed my teaching schedule, and that has ALSO made a huge difference in how I spend my time. I am no longer running home from picking up the ladybugs from school to teach for 4 hours, nor am I teaching ALL day on Saturday. Spreading the teaching up into 4 days has really been the brilliant idea I needed. And, just this week I made the decision to raise my tuition rates this fall. I put together packages of information for my families, which include: an explanation letter, a brief bio of my qualifications, and a new procedures document to sign. On the encouragement of my dear friend, Dana, I also have added an incentive for signing up early (i.e. May) for fall lessons. Each family will receive a $25 voucher off tuition to be used at any point during the school year (September 2012 - May 2013).
Making these changes has taken quite a lot of thought and prayer. I have also spent a lot of time composing the needed documents and creating the files necessary to accomplish goal. But the rewards are going to be stellar, so I cannot wait. I have also made peace with the idea that maybe I will not have all my students return to lessons in the fall. I hope this doesn't happen, but I know that a small increase in tuition can sometimes be what deters people from continuing lessons.
Now onto renegotiating my finances and writing that best seller about Bonnie! :)
I suppose with time we will see what happens.
Wednesday, April 18, 2012
Starting Here Starting Now
I haven't blogged in awhile regarding my journey to healthy living. It's not because I forgot to mention it, or it slipped my mind. The truth is: I became very bitter about the location I was taking classes.
When I started the journey last August 1st, I was very motivated. I started with a personal trainer and she worked my butt off that first day. I bought a package (not cheap I might add) of time with her. After 10 sessions with her, I definitely noticed a change. However, she never really discussed nutrition, nor healthy eating habits, nor what classes I should take to maintain and continue her efforts so far. This, my dear reader, definitely peeved me; because I can read a diet book and I can blindly take exercise classes, but what I needed was a teacher.
This journey was never a cerebral one. I am quite intelligent (*snicker*), and I can see what works and what does not. In fact, I am still getting comments on a post regarding Weight Watchers. It is not that I posed false information, but I laugh because if I am so SMART why am I still 100 pounds overweight. Oh yeah...I love food.
I have done a lot of soul searching lately. Looking at what I really want to be doing with my life - that is outside of being a wife and mother. I am still on 10mg of Paxil a day (down still from the 20mg of last year), but I have added a blood pressure pill to the mix. At 37 I cannot say I have great health, and I'm really not certain I could say I have good health either. What does this say as a role model?
Okay. So enough bashing. I love food. I don't love being overweight. I do want to be healthier. I need to do something.
Jim and I started a new program on Monday. It is called The Digest Diet. It is from the editor of Readers Digest, and it is very close to the same food thoughts as This is Why You're Fat, which was the book I read last summer. However, there is a big difference in the motivation behind the books: The Digest Diet focuses on health and emotional well-being, whereas This is Why You're Fat encourages the reader to become as ripped as its author.
So I'm in day #3, and I have to say I'm not dying the way I thought I would. The first 4 days are very sparse in the food department. However, I am proud that I am able to eat exactly what is prescribed. And I believe this diet to be a prescription to good health, not just a fad diet. I need something dramatic to kick me into gear. I cannot rely on a trainer to teach me to eat right and then not wonder why I haven't shown up to classes since January. I need to take responsibility for my health, and turn this cycle upside down.
On another note - I sent three manuscripts out today. One was The Tra La La Tree and the other two were The Silver Frog. I sincerely hope someone picks up one of my ideas. However, I have decided on a non-fiction topic as my next work: My Relationship with Bonnie.
When I started the journey last August 1st, I was very motivated. I started with a personal trainer and she worked my butt off that first day. I bought a package (not cheap I might add) of time with her. After 10 sessions with her, I definitely noticed a change. However, she never really discussed nutrition, nor healthy eating habits, nor what classes I should take to maintain and continue her efforts so far. This, my dear reader, definitely peeved me; because I can read a diet book and I can blindly take exercise classes, but what I needed was a teacher.
This journey was never a cerebral one. I am quite intelligent (*snicker*), and I can see what works and what does not. In fact, I am still getting comments on a post regarding Weight Watchers. It is not that I posed false information, but I laugh because if I am so SMART why am I still 100 pounds overweight. Oh yeah...I love food.
I have done a lot of soul searching lately. Looking at what I really want to be doing with my life - that is outside of being a wife and mother. I am still on 10mg of Paxil a day (down still from the 20mg of last year), but I have added a blood pressure pill to the mix. At 37 I cannot say I have great health, and I'm really not certain I could say I have good health either. What does this say as a role model?
Okay. So enough bashing. I love food. I don't love being overweight. I do want to be healthier. I need to do something.
Jim and I started a new program on Monday. It is called The Digest Diet. It is from the editor of Readers Digest, and it is very close to the same food thoughts as This is Why You're Fat, which was the book I read last summer. However, there is a big difference in the motivation behind the books: The Digest Diet focuses on health and emotional well-being, whereas This is Why You're Fat encourages the reader to become as ripped as its author.
So I'm in day #3, and I have to say I'm not dying the way I thought I would. The first 4 days are very sparse in the food department. However, I am proud that I am able to eat exactly what is prescribed. And I believe this diet to be a prescription to good health, not just a fad diet. I need something dramatic to kick me into gear. I cannot rely on a trainer to teach me to eat right and then not wonder why I haven't shown up to classes since January. I need to take responsibility for my health, and turn this cycle upside down.
On another note - I sent three manuscripts out today. One was The Tra La La Tree and the other two were The Silver Frog. I sincerely hope someone picks up one of my ideas. However, I have decided on a non-fiction topic as my next work: My Relationship with Bonnie.
Thursday, December 22, 2011
STOP THE PRESSES! Christmas Trees are Pagan!
Before I begin this bizarre homage to Christmas traditions, I want to make a few things clear for my readers.
Bonnie came over last week to drop off the monthly publications from the Witnesses. I knew there would at least be one article on how the Pagans were the originators of all things Christmas. I was not disappointed. "The Christmas Tree It's Pre-Christian Origin," was rich with assumptions and albeit small, presented three pictures to support the claim.
According to the article, Christmas trees (adorned evergreen trees) were being celebrated before the birth of Jesus. Look, Jesus didn't ask us to decorate a tree for him. He never asked us to celebrate his birthday. I realize this is why Witnesses don't celebrate birthdays, however, I believe the traditions celebrated each year have more to do with family, love and giving than they do with pagans.
Not only were adorned trees popular before Jesus's birth, but they are phallic symbols. Oh no! They are tall = must be a penis depicted. Good grief.
Evergreen - ever green; that is what I think is special about the Christmas tree. I love the idea of remembering each ornament and giving it a special place on a branch. I love homemade ones from the ladybugs, and I love honoring traditions that Jim and I bring from our youth as well as ones we've created since having children. The tree is a remembrance that Jesus's love is ever green. And in this case, Pagan or not, the tree CAN be a symbol of a Christian Christmas.
A symbol is what we make of it. To me, a statue of Mary is just a pretty relic. To others, this statue is a way to speak/pray directly to the spirit of Mary. Mary then takes that prayer and places it in a high place for God. If I don't think of the evergreen as anything but a symbol of Jesus's love, why then would I be an abomination in God's eyes? I am not under some delusion that the tree was created on the first Christmas (December 25th), nor am I praying to the tree. Why then is the symbol such a horrible one?
The BEST part of the small article are the three pictures of rock carvings depicting trees. Here is a crude picture taken by my phone (my apologies that it isn't the right direction):
I cannot stop laughing that these drawings are used to illustrate that the evergreen tree was adorned and celebrated before the birth of Jesus. I think in all three cases we can see that they are trees, #3 definitely looks like an evergreen tree. But there aren't ornaments or tinsel or other "traditional" decorations. I am certain the celebrations predating Jesus's birth had beautiful garlands and the like using evergreens. After all, they were a plentiful tree back then!
On this, the first day of Winter, I am reminded of the celebrations for the winter solstice of years passed. Some still participate in the changing of the seasons, when the earth is celebrating the longest night of the year in the Northern Hemisphere. Solstice means "sun stands still." On this special night the sun seems to stand still, thus getting reborn. Does this sound a lot like Jesus's birth? Birth of a sun or birth of a son. Interesting how this all began.
Regardless what your winter traditions are, have a blessed time celebrating!
- I am aware that December 25th was not in the Bible. We do not know the exact date of Jesus's birth.
- Most traditions popularized in the early Christian church (i.e. Catholic) were taken from pagan neighbors - converting was super important.
- I am not making fun of the Jehovah Witnesses. I admire their tenacity. However, I enjoy pointing out when people (or organizations) make statements that are cobbled up messes.
Bonnie came over last week to drop off the monthly publications from the Witnesses. I knew there would at least be one article on how the Pagans were the originators of all things Christmas. I was not disappointed. "The Christmas Tree It's Pre-Christian Origin," was rich with assumptions and albeit small, presented three pictures to support the claim.
According to the article, Christmas trees (adorned evergreen trees) were being celebrated before the birth of Jesus. Look, Jesus didn't ask us to decorate a tree for him. He never asked us to celebrate his birthday. I realize this is why Witnesses don't celebrate birthdays, however, I believe the traditions celebrated each year have more to do with family, love and giving than they do with pagans.
Not only were adorned trees popular before Jesus's birth, but they are phallic symbols. Oh no! They are tall = must be a penis depicted. Good grief.
Evergreen - ever green; that is what I think is special about the Christmas tree. I love the idea of remembering each ornament and giving it a special place on a branch. I love homemade ones from the ladybugs, and I love honoring traditions that Jim and I bring from our youth as well as ones we've created since having children. The tree is a remembrance that Jesus's love is ever green. And in this case, Pagan or not, the tree CAN be a symbol of a Christian Christmas.
A symbol is what we make of it. To me, a statue of Mary is just a pretty relic. To others, this statue is a way to speak/pray directly to the spirit of Mary. Mary then takes that prayer and places it in a high place for God. If I don't think of the evergreen as anything but a symbol of Jesus's love, why then would I be an abomination in God's eyes? I am not under some delusion that the tree was created on the first Christmas (December 25th), nor am I praying to the tree. Why then is the symbol such a horrible one?
The BEST part of the small article are the three pictures of rock carvings depicting trees. Here is a crude picture taken by my phone (my apologies that it isn't the right direction):
I cannot stop laughing that these drawings are used to illustrate that the evergreen tree was adorned and celebrated before the birth of Jesus. I think in all three cases we can see that they are trees, #3 definitely looks like an evergreen tree. But there aren't ornaments or tinsel or other "traditional" decorations. I am certain the celebrations predating Jesus's birth had beautiful garlands and the like using evergreens. After all, they were a plentiful tree back then!
On this, the first day of Winter, I am reminded of the celebrations for the winter solstice of years passed. Some still participate in the changing of the seasons, when the earth is celebrating the longest night of the year in the Northern Hemisphere. Solstice means "sun stands still." On this special night the sun seems to stand still, thus getting reborn. Does this sound a lot like Jesus's birth? Birth of a sun or birth of a son. Interesting how this all began.
Regardless what your winter traditions are, have a blessed time celebrating!
Thursday, September 22, 2011
The Bad Rap for Rap
...and where the heck do the Jehovah Witnesses get their article quotes from?
Last Tuesday, Evie and I went to lunch with Bonnie at Panera. For those of my readers that don't know about Bonnie, you can click here: BONNIE
Months go by, but Bonnie never forgets to get the Jehovah Witness monthly publications in my hands. She was super excited to get the August Awake! to me, as there was a large section about music.
From other conversations I've had with Bonnie, I know that the Witnesses do not participate in band or choir at school, nor do they actively participate in worldly music programs (i.e. all extra curricular activities non-Witness related). It was approximately this time last year that I told Bonnie I wouldn't be who I am without music and the opportunities experienced because of my music education. Music allows me to commune with God, it centers me, and it has provided income throughout my life.
It was a discussion regarding music that ultimately ended our weekly Bible studies. I give Bonnie credit, she did try to pull the conversation back to other areas the devil influences, but I could not seem to get off the topic of music in a person's life. According to Bonnie, the Witnesses are not told WHAT to listen to (i.e. a certain artist or band) because that would be controlling. They are not controlled like other worldly Christian religions; which to me is so far from the truth.
Last evening I finally had the opportunity to read the four publications she gave me last week (two from August and two from September), and there were a few moments I couldn't stop laughing.
For those that are not aware, the Jehovah Witnesses publish two magazines for the general public each month: Awake! and The Watchtower. Both contain quotes from people of all ages, and simply state the person's name and age (e.g. Mark, 21). The quotes support the statements in the article, and quite often sound like an old man (or men) trying to be relevant to the topic. One quote that stood out last night was part of a larger story:
As in every aspect of life, music may contain suggestive content. However, I do not believe that music (or video games or movies) directly cause someone to do drugs or to act malicious towards other people.
But the hilarious fabricated quotes don't end there. Another example was in an article regarding the act of sharing information on the Internet:
And here is another one that makes me laugh even harder:
Schoolmates is such an old person term! Plus, maybe the "old schoolmates" have grown up and don't participate in the "bad stuff" they were involved with in high school. Is it really Christian behavior to exclude friends based on the past?
I am not stating that these quotes are impossible, I am merely suggesting the improbability of their validity. The truly sad thing here is: the Witnesses actually believe there are people writing/saying these quotable phrases. The brainwashing happens when the elders write these publications and want their flock to take heart at what is presented. Then the flock believes what is written; after all, why would their elders lie?
Not to be confused with many other crazy statements in their publications (CLICK HERE FOR THOSE), the Witnesses lose all serious consideration on my part when they add the extra quotes from common people.
On a sad note: Evie and I had a lovely lunch with Bonnie, which lasted only about 45 minutes. I had nowhere to be, but when Evie had to go to the bathroom Bonnie quickly said we should end our meeting at that point. She left very scattered and strangely. I know she loves Evie and I, but her faith is much stronger then our relationship.
In case you were wondering, reader, the Witnesses are not supposed to associate with those not part of the truth (i.e. another Witness) nor those not having an official Bible study. Their Bible studies aren't just door-to-door hang outs, they have to log the hours, the addresses, the names of those having a study, etc. It is very official, and our Panera lunch meeting could not have been counted as a true Bible study; a Bible was not even present. As much as Bonnie shines with the spirit, she must also be conflicted to have a daughter and friends that are not part of the truth. I know I am sad that we cannot have a "normal" relationship.
Last Tuesday, Evie and I went to lunch with Bonnie at Panera. For those of my readers that don't know about Bonnie, you can click here: BONNIE
Months go by, but Bonnie never forgets to get the Jehovah Witness monthly publications in my hands. She was super excited to get the August Awake! to me, as there was a large section about music.
From other conversations I've had with Bonnie, I know that the Witnesses do not participate in band or choir at school, nor do they actively participate in worldly music programs (i.e. all extra curricular activities non-Witness related). It was approximately this time last year that I told Bonnie I wouldn't be who I am without music and the opportunities experienced because of my music education. Music allows me to commune with God, it centers me, and it has provided income throughout my life.
It was a discussion regarding music that ultimately ended our weekly Bible studies. I give Bonnie credit, she did try to pull the conversation back to other areas the devil influences, but I could not seem to get off the topic of music in a person's life. According to Bonnie, the Witnesses are not told WHAT to listen to (i.e. a certain artist or band) because that would be controlling. They are not controlled like other worldly Christian religions; which to me is so far from the truth.
Last evening I finally had the opportunity to read the four publications she gave me last week (two from August and two from September), and there were a few moments I couldn't stop laughing.
For those that are not aware, the Jehovah Witnesses publish two magazines for the general public each month: Awake! and The Watchtower. Both contain quotes from people of all ages, and simply state the person's name and age (e.g. Mark, 21). The quotes support the statements in the article, and quite often sound like an old man (or men) trying to be relevant to the topic. One quote that stood out last night was part of a larger story:
"My teenage years were a blur of alcohol, drugs, and violence," says Ashley 24, "and the music that fueled it was heavy metal and rap. The profane, hate-filled lyrics and strong, driving beat made me feel powerful. The music also connected me to my drug-taking friends. Rappers and heavy-metal bands were our mentors and heroes."Personally I know more drug users that listened to The Beatles and Pink Floyd then P Diddy and Anthrax. In my opinion the above quote could not have been written by a 24 year-old. It is obviously an attempt from a Witness elder to sound hip. Here is the last part of the story:
Why I Made Changes - Awake! August 2011 page 7
"Today, years later, I still feel drawn to heavy metal and rap. So I avoid them as if they were addictive drugs. Now I enjoy many other kinds of music, including ballads, easy rock, and some classical. But the best thing is that I am in control."Jim laughed as he read the end of the story and said, "Easy rock? What is that?" I laughed, and then replied that it probably includes songs from Hall and Oats, Huey Lewis and the News or Air Supply. None are very current...and none are rock. After a bit of research I found this compilation CD:
As in every aspect of life, music may contain suggestive content. However, I do not believe that music (or video games or movies) directly cause someone to do drugs or to act malicious towards other people.
But the hilarious fabricated quotes don't end there. Another example was in an article regarding the act of sharing information on the Internet:
"A Christian elder spoke to me about my profile picture," Kate 21 says, "and I was grateful. I knew that he wanted to protect my reputation."I would be completely shocked if elders are actually looking at the profiles of their flock. Maybe they are, but I cannot imagine feeling grateful that a church elder told me to clean up my profile pic.
What Should I Know About Social Networking? - Awake! August 2011 page 11
And here is another one that makes me laugh even harder:
"I've had requests from old schoolmates to become their networking friend. But I did my best in school to avoid that particular crowd; why would I want to be part of it now?" - Alex, 21.
Schoolmates is such an old person term! Plus, maybe the "old schoolmates" have grown up and don't participate in the "bad stuff" they were involved with in high school. Is it really Christian behavior to exclude friends based on the past?
I am not stating that these quotes are impossible, I am merely suggesting the improbability of their validity. The truly sad thing here is: the Witnesses actually believe there are people writing/saying these quotable phrases. The brainwashing happens when the elders write these publications and want their flock to take heart at what is presented. Then the flock believes what is written; after all, why would their elders lie?
Not to be confused with many other crazy statements in their publications (CLICK HERE FOR THOSE), the Witnesses lose all serious consideration on my part when they add the extra quotes from common people.
On a sad note: Evie and I had a lovely lunch with Bonnie, which lasted only about 45 minutes. I had nowhere to be, but when Evie had to go to the bathroom Bonnie quickly said we should end our meeting at that point. She left very scattered and strangely. I know she loves Evie and I, but her faith is much stronger then our relationship.
In case you were wondering, reader, the Witnesses are not supposed to associate with those not part of the truth (i.e. another Witness) nor those not having an official Bible study. Their Bible studies aren't just door-to-door hang outs, they have to log the hours, the addresses, the names of those having a study, etc. It is very official, and our Panera lunch meeting could not have been counted as a true Bible study; a Bible was not even present. As much as Bonnie shines with the spirit, she must also be conflicted to have a daughter and friends that are not part of the truth. I know I am sad that we cannot have a "normal" relationship.
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Fruit of the Spirit - Joy
"For his anger lasts only a moment, but his favor lasts a lifetime! Weeping may last through the night, but joy comes with the morning."
Psalm 30:5
Psalm 30:5
Joy is probably the one fruit I most desire to contain within my heart. I'm sure, reader, that it is quite simple to point out those that are joyful - always joyful. I can think of two people who are always in a state of joy: Bonnie and Nancy.
Bonnie, as most of you know by now, is my Jehovah Witness friend. She is always warm and full of life. It was that light I wanted to possess. I also assume this joy was catching, and had a lot to do with my desire to see Bonnie each week (even if we were studying the Jehovah Witness view of life).
The other joyful person is Nancy. She is a mom at the Christian school my children go to. She is always full of the bright light of Christ. Her eyes, her actions, and her contagious smile. She seems to have to do very little to convince me to participate in school activities with gusto!
Ms. Manning, the author of Harvesting the Fruit of the Spirit, states:
"We find joy is more than a state of mind; it is a state of faith - faith to anticipate that circumstances are going to get better and God is in control regardless of how out-of-control things appear to be." (page 50).
There was a word in the book today that I had never heard before: Shekinah. So, as you know, I HAD to look it up. Shekinah is a feminine Greek word to mean dwelling place. I thought it was very interesting that Ms. Manning used a very old Greek term in her writing, considering she is Baptist. I am not assuming what Baptists say and not say, but I am surprised to see this old feminine word used to describe God's glory.
I had a furrowed-brow moment in the section as well. Ms. Manning lists all the information in the Bible:
"Between the pages we can find a parental handbook, a financial advisor (which should be spelled: adviser), legal services, medical assistance, marriage counseling, conclusive scientific finding, stress relief techniques, history, prophecies, and more, much more." (page 49)
I am pretty open when it comes to interpretations of the Bible. As much as Bonnie protested, the Witnesses also draw conclusions to the text. However, the idea of "conclusive scientific finding", as stated by Manning, was a baffle to me. There is nothing about algebra in the Bible. However, maybe she meant scriptures that refer to the basic scientific truths that we now hold. At PleaseConvinceMe.com they list scientific findings with scripture, and it is VERY interesting.
That being said, I am truly interested in being the one people call: enlightened with the love of God. I want to be joyful and emit that joy to others. We'll see if I can sow, water, cultivate and harvest that seed.
Friday, July 15, 2011
Breaking Up is Hard to Do....?
Last Fall I decided that after 15 months of weekly Bible studies with Bonnie, I would tell her I was no longer interested in continuing. I mentioned this in a a blog from January, but upon rereading the blog I don't think I was very forthcoming with the "break-up" story.
I absolutely HATE confrontation. So in October I wrote Bonnie a very nice letter telling her that life circumstances were such that I would have to take a hiatus until after the holidays. Yeah, I know Witnesses don't celebrate holidays, but I also knew that Bonnie would understand my verbiage.
I then saw her in January for lunch, which she said would simply be "social". It wasn't. She brought her Bible. However, I love her so much...because she was a part of my life for quite some time. And honestly I really owe quite a bit of my Bible knowledge because of our meetings. I feel as if I have a very good understanding of scripture (i.e. where to find specific verses), and I know that is due to Bonnie's weekly visits.
So a month ago she asked if she could stop in and we could look at some scriptures. I said sure. She came twice. Then on Monday she left me a voicemail that (for all practical purposes) broke up with me. On one hand, no, I do not want to be a Jehovah's Witness. But on the other hand, I also do not want to go to meetings or to the Convention. I just don't. I feel that I would be pretending to want to be there just for her. And I do not want to be fake in front of someone who I care deeply about.
Her voicemail was cordial, but she stated that until I want to go to meetings or have a structured Bible study there wasn't much point in looking at scriptures and answering my questions. She said I could call her anytime, and that she would stop by each month to bring me the magazines. But I honestly think she is giving me "tough love." You know...when a parent takes away the fun stuff so the kid will conform to the "correct" way? Yeah, that is what I felt happened in the voicemail. She loves me and wants me to make choices that work for me. However, she also hopes that I chose to come to meetings and the like.
I have had many friendships in my lifetime. I had hoped that my friendship with Bonnie wasn't circumstantial, but I really feel as if it was/is. When I was studying each week and answering the Bible study questions with the "correct" answers (the way a Witness would answer them) I was her special student. Her BEST student ever! But maybe I am her biggest student disappointment ever....dunno.
I may have posted this before, but I guess when a friendship has dissolved I think of it:
I absolutely HATE confrontation. So in October I wrote Bonnie a very nice letter telling her that life circumstances were such that I would have to take a hiatus until after the holidays. Yeah, I know Witnesses don't celebrate holidays, but I also knew that Bonnie would understand my verbiage.
I then saw her in January for lunch, which she said would simply be "social". It wasn't. She brought her Bible. However, I love her so much...because she was a part of my life for quite some time. And honestly I really owe quite a bit of my Bible knowledge because of our meetings. I feel as if I have a very good understanding of scripture (i.e. where to find specific verses), and I know that is due to Bonnie's weekly visits.
So a month ago she asked if she could stop in and we could look at some scriptures. I said sure. She came twice. Then on Monday she left me a voicemail that (for all practical purposes) broke up with me. On one hand, no, I do not want to be a Jehovah's Witness. But on the other hand, I also do not want to go to meetings or to the Convention. I just don't. I feel that I would be pretending to want to be there just for her. And I do not want to be fake in front of someone who I care deeply about.
Her voicemail was cordial, but she stated that until I want to go to meetings or have a structured Bible study there wasn't much point in looking at scriptures and answering my questions. She said I could call her anytime, and that she would stop by each month to bring me the magazines. But I honestly think she is giving me "tough love." You know...when a parent takes away the fun stuff so the kid will conform to the "correct" way? Yeah, that is what I felt happened in the voicemail. She loves me and wants me to make choices that work for me. However, she also hopes that I chose to come to meetings and the like.
I have had many friendships in my lifetime. I had hoped that my friendship with Bonnie wasn't circumstantial, but I really feel as if it was/is. When I was studying each week and answering the Bible study questions with the "correct" answers (the way a Witness would answer them) I was her special student. Her BEST student ever! But maybe I am her biggest student disappointment ever....dunno.
I may have posted this before, but I guess when a friendship has dissolved I think of it:
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.
Then people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
Saturday, July 9, 2011
The Road Less Traveled
When I was in high school my favorite poem was The Road Not Taken by Robert Frost.
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
I really think I liked this poem because I could dissect it and the language was understandable. But the other day I was reminded of this poem, due to a Bible study with Bonnie. We studied Matthew 7. The scripture from 13 and 14 stood out to me:
Bonnie says she refuses to "give up" on me. As if I am a lost puppy...but to her I am lost - lost in the world. I suppose that when you believe all religion is false and the world is only encouraging false beliefs you would be scared for those you love.
I have only agreed to meet with Bonnie because she said she missed us and loved us. I was naive to believe she would just come and visit without bringing her Bible, new magazines, and conducting a study. She desperately wants me to see that I am part of the world of wickedness. That I need to jump on board the Witness Ark to be rescued when Armageddon comes.
To Bonnie, Armageddon is coming soon - she says withing 25 years. Her daughter, Dana, said that the Bible clearly states we will not know the time. For Dana Armageddon could come today or 50 years from now, but she doesn't worry because she is in the Truth.
I would like to think that I did not take the road most others took...but I also don't want to be in the Truth. Maybe one day I will look back at this blog post and laugh at my stupid self saying, "See how you were SO into the world that you were blinded to the truth?" But I am almost 100% certain that I could never give up holidays and fantasies (i.e. Santa, fairies, make-believe, theater, music, etc.).
Yes, music is in that list. One should only sing hymns from the Witness songbook at meetings. This means no worship songs, and nothing that I really love to sing to God. If the Truth is the truth and the Earth gets renewed and humans live in harmony (i.e. new system of things) it would be very interesting to hear what people sing. No rock, no profanity, nothing that doesn't come from the Bible - would there be self expression?
I want it to go on record that I would be able to give up holidays and birthdays and only wear "churchy" clothing (i.e. skirts and pant suits), but not getting to express myself in song would be death for me. Do I think that Satan has put this thought in my mind and heart? No.
So maybe I am part of this system of things: Satan's system. I will wear my flip-flops, tattoos, sparkly toes, nose piercing (one of these days) and multi-colored hair proudly; singing songs that bring joy to my heart and to others. Living for today and not worrying about the future destruction of mankind. If this means I don't get to live with a khaki-colored pant and button-downed shit wearing husband watching our perfect children adorning modest dresses whilst running in the meadows (Little House on the Prairie style) celebrating the truth, then that's quite all right with me.
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
I really think I liked this poem because I could dissect it and the language was understandable. But the other day I was reminded of this poem, due to a Bible study with Bonnie. We studied Matthew 7. The scripture from 13 and 14 stood out to me:
Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.Since Bonnie is a Witness, this scripture is proof that those not in the truth are on the "easy" road in life. Matthew 7: 21 continues:
Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name and in your name drive out demons and in your name perform many miracles?’ Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!’
Bonnie says she refuses to "give up" on me. As if I am a lost puppy...but to her I am lost - lost in the world. I suppose that when you believe all religion is false and the world is only encouraging false beliefs you would be scared for those you love.
I have only agreed to meet with Bonnie because she said she missed us and loved us. I was naive to believe she would just come and visit without bringing her Bible, new magazines, and conducting a study. She desperately wants me to see that I am part of the world of wickedness. That I need to jump on board the Witness Ark to be rescued when Armageddon comes.
To Bonnie, Armageddon is coming soon - she says withing 25 years. Her daughter, Dana, said that the Bible clearly states we will not know the time. For Dana Armageddon could come today or 50 years from now, but she doesn't worry because she is in the Truth.
I would like to think that I did not take the road most others took...but I also don't want to be in the Truth. Maybe one day I will look back at this blog post and laugh at my stupid self saying, "See how you were SO into the world that you were blinded to the truth?" But I am almost 100% certain that I could never give up holidays and fantasies (i.e. Santa, fairies, make-believe, theater, music, etc.).
Yes, music is in that list. One should only sing hymns from the Witness songbook at meetings. This means no worship songs, and nothing that I really love to sing to God. If the Truth is the truth and the Earth gets renewed and humans live in harmony (i.e. new system of things) it would be very interesting to hear what people sing. No rock, no profanity, nothing that doesn't come from the Bible - would there be self expression?
I want it to go on record that I would be able to give up holidays and birthdays and only wear "churchy" clothing (i.e. skirts and pant suits), but not getting to express myself in song would be death for me. Do I think that Satan has put this thought in my mind and heart? No.
So maybe I am part of this system of things: Satan's system. I will wear my flip-flops, tattoos, sparkly toes, nose piercing (one of these days) and multi-colored hair proudly; singing songs that bring joy to my heart and to others. Living for today and not worrying about the future destruction of mankind. If this means I don't get to live with a khaki-colored pant and button-downed shit wearing husband watching our perfect children adorning modest dresses whilst running in the meadows (Little House on the Prairie style) celebrating the truth, then that's quite all right with me.
Saturday, June 25, 2011
Gloom & Doom
Awhile back I posted a blog titled, "Witnesses Don't Like the Catholics." Since then I have seen Bonnie only a couple times to receive the newest Witness publications. One thing rings true for most of the articles: Gloom and Doom.
And I'm really not saying they are a faith based on gloom and doom. What I am saying is that in order to preach about the "truth," the publications illustrate all the "hell" going on in our current world.
For instance, in the June 1, 2011 Watchtower, the cover says, "END of POVERTY How?" Upon entering the magazine, the articles in the issue are as follows: "What is Extreme Poverty Like?", "Efforts to End Poverty", "Good News for the Poor", "Is There Hope for the Dead?", and "Have You Ever Felt Like An Outsider?" It humbly ends with an article called, "Will Humans Ruin This Earth?"
The June 2011 issue of Awake! also has a laundry list of hellish stuff. The cover says, "Terrorism: Why does it happen? Why will it end?" Articles on the subject include: "Will I Wanted Was To Get My Mail", "Why Some Resort to Violence", and "Is a World Without Terrorism Possible?"
I just don't understand how people can be persuaded by gloom and doom. No, I'm not insinuating that God is a "feel good" God. But I feel that this gloom and doom gets really old. In the end, the same thing is told: Believe in Jehovah and you will get to see a New Earth without these horrible problems.
I am much more touched by personal stories from people who found Jehovah and the Witnesses after choosing a different life. Sometimes the stories are a bit far-fetched, but honestly they are more powerful then a horrific picture depicting a man driving from getting his mail to see a fire-scape in his rear-view mirror. Or the picture of the man in a vest that is wired to a bomb so he can suicide bomb a location. Really? I know this works for some, but after 2 years of getting these publications I only see the same gloom and doom illustrated over and over ad nauseum.
Bonnie stopped over again on Thursday. She said that 2 Corinthians 4 was very life-changing for her. Here is the chapter from the NIV:
Bonnie implied that the god of this age is Satan, and that he puts a veil over our eyes to the truth. She implied that may desire to continue celebrating holidays, and other non-truth events I am just covering my eyes with a veil to the truth. Satan, in her opinion, is a god because it he wasn't how would he be able to control people as he does? Anyway, he also "has the whole world in his hands" according to Bonnie. Interesting viewpoint.
She will talk of this beautiful place - a rebirth of the Earth. A paradise Earth that those that truly believe will live forever. However, just like I've said before...a paradise Earth would not be so if I didn't have my friends and family with me. Just like heaven wouldn't be all that spectacular if I was amongst strangers.
And I'm really not saying they are a faith based on gloom and doom. What I am saying is that in order to preach about the "truth," the publications illustrate all the "hell" going on in our current world.
For instance, in the June 1, 2011 Watchtower, the cover says, "END of POVERTY How?" Upon entering the magazine, the articles in the issue are as follows: "What is Extreme Poverty Like?", "Efforts to End Poverty", "Good News for the Poor", "Is There Hope for the Dead?", and "Have You Ever Felt Like An Outsider?" It humbly ends with an article called, "Will Humans Ruin This Earth?"
The June 2011 issue of Awake! also has a laundry list of hellish stuff. The cover says, "Terrorism: Why does it happen? Why will it end?" Articles on the subject include: "Will I Wanted Was To Get My Mail", "Why Some Resort to Violence", and "Is a World Without Terrorism Possible?"
I just don't understand how people can be persuaded by gloom and doom. No, I'm not insinuating that God is a "feel good" God. But I feel that this gloom and doom gets really old. In the end, the same thing is told: Believe in Jehovah and you will get to see a New Earth without these horrible problems.
I am much more touched by personal stories from people who found Jehovah and the Witnesses after choosing a different life. Sometimes the stories are a bit far-fetched, but honestly they are more powerful then a horrific picture depicting a man driving from getting his mail to see a fire-scape in his rear-view mirror. Or the picture of the man in a vest that is wired to a bomb so he can suicide bomb a location. Really? I know this works for some, but after 2 years of getting these publications I only see the same gloom and doom illustrated over and over ad nauseum.
Bonnie stopped over again on Thursday. She said that 2 Corinthians 4 was very life-changing for her. Here is the chapter from the NIV:
Therefore, since through God’s mercy we have this ministry, we do not lose heart. Rather, we have renounced secret and shameful ways; we do not use deception, nor do we distort the word of God. On the contrary, by setting forth the truth plainly we commend ourselves to everyone’s conscience in the sight of God. And even if our gospel is veiled, it is veiled to those who are perishing. The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel that displays the glory of Christ, who is the image of God. For what we preach is not ourselves, but Jesus Christ as Lord, and ourselves as your servants for Jesus’ sake. For God, who said, “Let light shine out of darkness,” made his light shine in our hearts to give us the light of the knowledge of God’s glory displayed in the face of Christ. But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us. We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed. We always carry around in our body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be revealed in our body. For we who are alive are always being given over to death for Jesus’ sake, so that his life may also be revealed in our mortal body. So then, death is at work in us, but life is at work in you. It is written: “I believed; therefore I have spoken.”Since we have that same spirit of faith, we also believe and therefore speak, because we know that the one who raised the Lord Jesus from the dead will also raise us with Jesus and present us with you to himself. All this is for your benefit, so that the grace that is reaching more and more people may cause thanksgiving to overflow to the glory of God. Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.
Bonnie implied that the god of this age is Satan, and that he puts a veil over our eyes to the truth. She implied that may desire to continue celebrating holidays, and other non-truth events I am just covering my eyes with a veil to the truth. Satan, in her opinion, is a god because it he wasn't how would he be able to control people as he does? Anyway, he also "has the whole world in his hands" according to Bonnie. Interesting viewpoint.
She will talk of this beautiful place - a rebirth of the Earth. A paradise Earth that those that truly believe will live forever. However, just like I've said before...a paradise Earth would not be so if I didn't have my friends and family with me. Just like heaven wouldn't be all that spectacular if I was amongst strangers.
Sunday, April 10, 2011
Listen to your Heart....?
My friend, Bonnie, came by on Friday afternoon to drop of the April Jehovah Witness publications. As always, she had scriptures to share with me. This time she shared a few that had to do with listening to the heart. On our last meeting I had mentioned that no matter how intelligent something is presented to me, I am still compelled to have emotional connection behind another answer or ideas. Basically, no matter what a Jehovah Witness presents (or any other mathematical calculated scripture-based church) I am apt to have a hard time accepting their "truth". I love traditions, like holidays and parties, and I love my relationship with God.
One of the scripture verses she shared is Jeremiah 10:23:
LORD, I know that people’s lives are not their own; it is not for them to direct their steps.
The above seems pretty logical. After all, I cannot predict nor control the world around me. However, the next verse (from Jeremiah 17: 9-10) bothered me:
Who can understand the human heart? There is nothing else so deceitful; it is too sick to be healed. I, the Lord, search the minds and test the hearts of people. I treat each of them according to the way they live, according to what they do.
Does this scripture mean that I cannot trust my heart? That is what Bonnie told me. That our hearts deceive us all the time. We fall in love with people, trust people, and continue to conduct ourselves in ways that are not pleasing to the Lord (i.e. celebrating holidays and not listening to the truth). So, instead, we need to follow our heads; intelligent thinking and logical "proven" conclusions.
I must admit that the Jehovah Witnesses have compelling information that would appeal to a great deal of people looking for answers. They have a book devoted to answering questions, and honestly on a high level it appears pretty comprehensive. And in her defense, Bonnie is very concerned that Armageddon is coming very soon. Since I am no longer studying she is worried that my children and I will not make it into the new system.
However, what I think Bonnie doesn't realize is that whether there is a heaven or is there will be a new Earth, I don't want to be there unless everyone I love is there too. And if the truth is REALLY the TRUTH then I suppose I will just be dust in the Earth.
One of the scripture verses she shared is Jeremiah 10:23:
LORD, I know that people’s lives are not their own; it is not for them to direct their steps.
The above seems pretty logical. After all, I cannot predict nor control the world around me. However, the next verse (from Jeremiah 17: 9-10) bothered me:
Who can understand the human heart? There is nothing else so deceitful; it is too sick to be healed. I, the Lord, search the minds and test the hearts of people. I treat each of them according to the way they live, according to what they do.
Does this scripture mean that I cannot trust my heart? That is what Bonnie told me. That our hearts deceive us all the time. We fall in love with people, trust people, and continue to conduct ourselves in ways that are not pleasing to the Lord (i.e. celebrating holidays and not listening to the truth). So, instead, we need to follow our heads; intelligent thinking and logical "proven" conclusions.
I must admit that the Jehovah Witnesses have compelling information that would appeal to a great deal of people looking for answers. They have a book devoted to answering questions, and honestly on a high level it appears pretty comprehensive. And in her defense, Bonnie is very concerned that Armageddon is coming very soon. Since I am no longer studying she is worried that my children and I will not make it into the new system.
However, what I think Bonnie doesn't realize is that whether there is a heaven or is there will be a new Earth, I don't want to be there unless everyone I love is there too. And if the truth is REALLY the TRUTH then I suppose I will just be dust in the Earth.
Thursday, April 7, 2011
drum roll....
7000 seems like such an arbitrary number...even though the number 7 appears in the Bible many, many times.
But there is a Bible verse to which the 7000 number has been obtained. In 2 Peter 3:8 the Bible states:
But, beloved, be not ignorant of this one thing, that one day is with the Lord as a thousand years, and a thousand years as one day.
So, with that in mind, creation was not 24 hour days; but rather it took the Lord 7000 years to create the Earth, see, sky, etc.
This is an interpretation, because even the Jehovah Witness (who are very date oriented) do not believe in a specific amount of time that creation took. They believe there were 7 different time periods in which certain items or things were created. However, the Witnesses have their own set of dates and times that are important to their faith.
From this website: CARM the following is stated:
An absolutely critical date for the Jehovah's Witnesses is 1914 AD. It is the date when, according to the Jehovah's Witnesses, the time of the Gentiles ended (Watchtower, 5/1/93, page 11) and "Jesus-the heavenly warrior Michael-became King of God's heavenly Kingdom," (Watchtower 11/1/93, page 23). To arrive at this date, the Witnesses take the account in Daniel 4 and apply a 360 day year for each of the seven "times" for a total of 2520 years. They add this date to 607 B.C., their date for the fall of Jerusalem under Nebuchadnezzar, and arrive at 1914 A.D., the date when Jesus supposedly returned invisibly in the heavens.
From my teachings with Bonnie, the generation alive during 1914 will see Armageddon. So, with that thought in mind...a person born in 1914 would now be: 96 or 97. I don't know how long a generation alive constitutes, but even with the Witnesses numbers 97 is pretty old. *
As I was saying, the number 7000 comes from an interpretation of Creation. From there, Noah's Ark is the other component to the date of May 21st, 2011. So, at this point we know that the 7000 years is a date that is interpreted by MAN to give logical numbers to dates and times in the Bible. There is no date in the Bible that tells us the rapture will occur on May 21st of this year; nor is there data that would allow us to infer the start date (as illustrated in the last blog).
Now onto who will be saved?
I will address the 2 million number (found in the quote below) from the Family Christian Radio website in my next blog.
"We learn from the Bible that Holy God plans to rescue about 200 million people (that is about 3% of today’s population). On the first day of the Day of Judgment (May 21, 2011) they will be caught up (raptured) into Heaven because God had great mercy for them."
*From a bit of research on the year 607BC I found a lot of varying information. Historians do not believe the 607BC date is correct. Here is a Jehovah Witness site that has their beliefs and why they won't give credit to other historic accounts: 607BC.
But there is a Bible verse to which the 7000 number has been obtained. In 2 Peter 3:8 the Bible states:
But, beloved, be not ignorant of this one thing, that one day is with the Lord as a thousand years, and a thousand years as one day.
So, with that in mind, creation was not 24 hour days; but rather it took the Lord 7000 years to create the Earth, see, sky, etc.
This is an interpretation, because even the Jehovah Witness (who are very date oriented) do not believe in a specific amount of time that creation took. They believe there were 7 different time periods in which certain items or things were created. However, the Witnesses have their own set of dates and times that are important to their faith.
From this website: CARM the following is stated:
An absolutely critical date for the Jehovah's Witnesses is 1914 AD. It is the date when, according to the Jehovah's Witnesses, the time of the Gentiles ended (Watchtower, 5/1/93, page 11) and "Jesus-the heavenly warrior Michael-became King of God's heavenly Kingdom," (Watchtower 11/1/93, page 23). To arrive at this date, the Witnesses take the account in Daniel 4 and apply a 360 day year for each of the seven "times" for a total of 2520 years. They add this date to 607 B.C., their date for the fall of Jerusalem under Nebuchadnezzar, and arrive at 1914 A.D., the date when Jesus supposedly returned invisibly in the heavens.
From my teachings with Bonnie, the generation alive during 1914 will see Armageddon. So, with that thought in mind...a person born in 1914 would now be: 96 or 97. I don't know how long a generation alive constitutes, but even with the Witnesses numbers 97 is pretty old. *
As I was saying, the number 7000 comes from an interpretation of Creation. From there, Noah's Ark is the other component to the date of May 21st, 2011. So, at this point we know that the 7000 years is a date that is interpreted by MAN to give logical numbers to dates and times in the Bible. There is no date in the Bible that tells us the rapture will occur on May 21st of this year; nor is there data that would allow us to infer the start date (as illustrated in the last blog).
Now onto who will be saved?
I will address the 2 million number (found in the quote below) from the Family Christian Radio website in my next blog.
"We learn from the Bible that Holy God plans to rescue about 200 million people (that is about 3% of today’s population). On the first day of the Day of Judgment (May 21, 2011) they will be caught up (raptured) into Heaven because God had great mercy for them."
*From a bit of research on the year 607BC I found a lot of varying information. Historians do not believe the 607BC date is correct. Here is a Jehovah Witness site that has their beliefs and why they won't give credit to other historic accounts: 607BC.
Thursday, January 13, 2011
Witnesses Don't Like the Catholics
The above image (I had to take a picture of it with my smart phone) is a priest with a Bible (in color) and a gun (in black and white). The image is from an article titled, "Is Religion a Force for Peace?" in the January 2011 publication of Awake! This publication, for those of you who do not know, is the sister magazine of The Watchtower. Both are monthly publications, and my dear friend, Bonnie, brought the two by my house last week.
I no longer have a weekly study with her, as I feel I no longer could continue a study of something I could never become. However, I still let her drop off the magazines, and I do find myself compelled to see what new fear, or angle they present.
I do have strong opinions of organized religion, which I will discuss at a later date. However, even though the Catholic religion added a lot of traditions not Biblically based, does not me Catholic people (including clergy) are murderers.
If asked, I'm sure the Jehovah Witness organization would say the image was for shock value, but with the shootings in Arizona only days ago my first impression of the image was very negative and NOT pro-religion (which includes Jehovah's Witnesses) in any form.
Thursday, August 12, 2010
memorable quotes
My mother-in-law sent me an email the other day and asked me what I thought of the following quote:
"Seduction is subtler than possession and harder to fight"
She used "religion" in the same paragraph, but I had no recollection of that quote as scripture. So, before I replied to her email, I decided to research the quotes origins. According to multiple Google results, the above was a quote from the TV show Charmed.
I also was a bit confused in what context this quote would be uttered. For instance, does my MIL want my opinion on if someone uses seduction rather than possession? or Does my MIL want to know if I think religion can be seductive or possessive? Regardless, I looked up both words on dictionary.com in order to get a better idea of their unique definitions.
Seduction: The means of seducing; enticement; temptation
Possession: The state of being controlled
Now that I have dictionary definitions, I think I can proceed to give my thoughts.
My first thought is to state what I think is the obvious reply: The quote was simply dialogue for a show on TV; no more, no less. Quite often dialogue can be received as having more substance (like a deeper meaning) then when it was originally written. Some shows are more well crafted than others. However, not ever having seen the show, I cannot correctly illustrated the meaning behind the text.
My next thought is to look into the possibility of truth in the statement. Our society is constantly inundated with seductive marketing for food, clothing, and toys. Whether you are driving down the road and see a huge billboard with a cup of coffee or a woman smiling holding a degree from the University of Phoenix, or if you are reading a magazine in the dentist office and there are perfume ads with half naked people; seductive marketing is everywhere.
I remember as a kid my dad showing me a magazine ad for liquor. Inside the ice cubes were the skill and crossbones: the sign for poison. It was an odd ad, considering people thought the ad was subliminally encouraging them to purchase the ice cold liquor. I was a bit disappointed that ice cubes didn't automatically change into "poison" artwork when liquor was added to the glass. But I digress...
I believe that if you have an addictive personality, seduction can come in many destructive forms: drugs, cigarettes, sex, gambling, etc. The pull these addictions have on people are truly amazing. As an observer of someone that quite smoking, I am not surprised there are so many products out there to "help" those wanting to quit. It's almost impossible to ignore the cravings (which are chemical and psychological), and most often the addiction is replaced by another substance.
Of course we cannot avoid seductive ads, nor can we lock ourselves away from any evil of the world. However, being aware is crucial.
Now onto possession. In my personal study of the Bible, there are a variety of interpretations when the word: possession comes into play. Many believe Satan (or one of his many demonic minions) are able to possess us. I don't believe this to be true, but lets just say it is truth. If you are possessed you are void of the ability to stop yourself from what the possessor wants from you. And of course seduction is subtler, since it is in many subliminal messages. However, I can't imagine how being possessed would be easier to fight.
But lets look at possession in a different way. If one is possessed, by definition, one is not able to make any decision. Therefore, one cannot even begin to fight the possession. I suppose if you believe in the possibility of demon possession, you probably find merit in exorcism. One that is possessed could be eliminated of the possession by means of the exorcist. In that sense, it is MUCH easier to be relieved of a possession then getting constantly seduced by life.
I do believe in people getting brainwashed, which I suppose is a form of possession. In this case, brainwashing can take place in religious organizations. It has been suggested (from people and online sites) that the Jehovah Witnesses are a cult. That they are brainwashing their Bible students and those baptized in the faith. Since I am currently studying with my friend, Bonnie, I can assure people that the Witnesses aren't a cult. They are a very intelligent group of people that are extremely dedicated to their relationship with God and helping others see the truth. The truth is what they believe to be the truth; as they see the scriptures describing. However, at no point do I see "cult-like" behavior from the Witnesses. I have been to the Kingdom Hall on a Sunday, a Tuesday and for the Memorial Dinner (their once a year observance of Jesus's Last Supper). In all three cases I saw people who were encouraged to study, who were encouraged to have opinions, and who seemed extremely "normal" in appearance and presentation.
With all that said, I truly don't think this quote is viable. I don't believe in witches (yes, there might be people who THINK they are witches and warlocks), and I also don't believe in possession (unless it is brainwashing). I think that the quote is just a silly dialogue moment that is meant for the characters in Charmed. But maybe someone else out there has a better response. I am hoping for comments here!
"Seduction is subtler than possession and harder to fight"
She used "religion" in the same paragraph, but I had no recollection of that quote as scripture. So, before I replied to her email, I decided to research the quotes origins. According to multiple Google results, the above was a quote from the TV show Charmed.
I also was a bit confused in what context this quote would be uttered. For instance, does my MIL want my opinion on if someone uses seduction rather than possession? or Does my MIL want to know if I think religion can be seductive or possessive? Regardless, I looked up both words on dictionary.com in order to get a better idea of their unique definitions.
Seduction: The means of seducing; enticement; temptation
Possession: The state of being controlled
Now that I have dictionary definitions, I think I can proceed to give my thoughts.
My first thought is to state what I think is the obvious reply: The quote was simply dialogue for a show on TV; no more, no less. Quite often dialogue can be received as having more substance (like a deeper meaning) then when it was originally written. Some shows are more well crafted than others. However, not ever having seen the show, I cannot correctly illustrated the meaning behind the text.
My next thought is to look into the possibility of truth in the statement. Our society is constantly inundated with seductive marketing for food, clothing, and toys. Whether you are driving down the road and see a huge billboard with a cup of coffee or a woman smiling holding a degree from the University of Phoenix, or if you are reading a magazine in the dentist office and there are perfume ads with half naked people; seductive marketing is everywhere.
I remember as a kid my dad showing me a magazine ad for liquor. Inside the ice cubes were the skill and crossbones: the sign for poison. It was an odd ad, considering people thought the ad was subliminally encouraging them to purchase the ice cold liquor. I was a bit disappointed that ice cubes didn't automatically change into "poison" artwork when liquor was added to the glass. But I digress...
I believe that if you have an addictive personality, seduction can come in many destructive forms: drugs, cigarettes, sex, gambling, etc. The pull these addictions have on people are truly amazing. As an observer of someone that quite smoking, I am not surprised there are so many products out there to "help" those wanting to quit. It's almost impossible to ignore the cravings (which are chemical and psychological), and most often the addiction is replaced by another substance.
Of course we cannot avoid seductive ads, nor can we lock ourselves away from any evil of the world. However, being aware is crucial.
Now onto possession. In my personal study of the Bible, there are a variety of interpretations when the word: possession comes into play. Many believe Satan (or one of his many demonic minions) are able to possess us. I don't believe this to be true, but lets just say it is truth. If you are possessed you are void of the ability to stop yourself from what the possessor wants from you. And of course seduction is subtler, since it is in many subliminal messages. However, I can't imagine how being possessed would be easier to fight.
But lets look at possession in a different way. If one is possessed, by definition, one is not able to make any decision. Therefore, one cannot even begin to fight the possession. I suppose if you believe in the possibility of demon possession, you probably find merit in exorcism. One that is possessed could be eliminated of the possession by means of the exorcist. In that sense, it is MUCH easier to be relieved of a possession then getting constantly seduced by life.
I do believe in people getting brainwashed, which I suppose is a form of possession. In this case, brainwashing can take place in religious organizations. It has been suggested (from people and online sites) that the Jehovah Witnesses are a cult. That they are brainwashing their Bible students and those baptized in the faith. Since I am currently studying with my friend, Bonnie, I can assure people that the Witnesses aren't a cult. They are a very intelligent group of people that are extremely dedicated to their relationship with God and helping others see the truth. The truth is what they believe to be the truth; as they see the scriptures describing. However, at no point do I see "cult-like" behavior from the Witnesses. I have been to the Kingdom Hall on a Sunday, a Tuesday and for the Memorial Dinner (their once a year observance of Jesus's Last Supper). In all three cases I saw people who were encouraged to study, who were encouraged to have opinions, and who seemed extremely "normal" in appearance and presentation.
With all that said, I truly don't think this quote is viable. I don't believe in witches (yes, there might be people who THINK they are witches and warlocks), and I also don't believe in possession (unless it is brainwashing). I think that the quote is just a silly dialogue moment that is meant for the characters in Charmed. But maybe someone else out there has a better response. I am hoping for comments here!
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
a case for blood
I think the best way to share today's study with Bonnie, would be to describe the illustration directly from the "What Does the Bible Really Teach" book. I searched online, but this was about as close to the original image as I could find.
I suppose I need to describe the reason there was an image of alcohol (i.e. booze) in an IV tube attached to a patient.
According to the Bible (the Jehovah Witness belief), we should not consume blood. Such scriptures are found in Genesis, Leviticus and Acts. We must also acknowledge that a blood transfusion is consuming another person's blood. The Witnesses believe that blood is the life force of a person (i.e. their DNA not a spirit), and we shouldn't take another person's life force. This idea of a person's identity represented by blood or DNA is still a bit unsettling to me. I am still having issues with there not being energy as a spirit. But that is another blog for another day.
The idea of drinking blood and an IV of blood was compared to someone who was told not to drink alcohol. Would it be okay for that person to have the alcohol given intravenously? No. Of course not. Of course I couldn't stop laughing when I saw the picture.
I have been given a publication and a DVD to further study the importance of blood. I will continue to study this point further. I may not agree with EVERYTHING the Witnesses have to teach, but what if blood really isn't the best option for surgery or in a pinch.
However, I did ask Bonnie about an organ transplant. Because, as I stated in an earlier blog, there would be blood in the organ. Bonnie stated that she personally wouldn't have a transplant, because of that point. But she said there are bloodless hospitals that might have methods of transplant that she would be comfortable with. This idea of a bloodless hospital is VERY interesting to me. After all, if your faith and beliefs tell you NOT to consume blood, I believe you must also not consume anything with blood in it.
Bonnie did comment on the eating of meat (i.e. a steak that has juices in it). Truthfully I would think most Witnesses to be vegetarians, just to be on the safe side. But Bonnie said as long as the animal is bled properly, the steak would be fine to eat. I honestly think there is too much "walking the line" on this subject.
So I continue with my quest to find the truth about blood. However, I am reminded that Jesus had to give his blood (i.e. die) to save another person or persons (i.e. us). If we give blood, are we saving another person's life? Are we playing God?
I suppose I need to describe the reason there was an image of alcohol (i.e. booze) in an IV tube attached to a patient.
According to the Bible (the Jehovah Witness belief), we should not consume blood. Such scriptures are found in Genesis, Leviticus and Acts. We must also acknowledge that a blood transfusion is consuming another person's blood. The Witnesses believe that blood is the life force of a person (i.e. their DNA not a spirit), and we shouldn't take another person's life force. This idea of a person's identity represented by blood or DNA is still a bit unsettling to me. I am still having issues with there not being energy as a spirit. But that is another blog for another day.
The idea of drinking blood and an IV of blood was compared to someone who was told not to drink alcohol. Would it be okay for that person to have the alcohol given intravenously? No. Of course not. Of course I couldn't stop laughing when I saw the picture.
I have been given a publication and a DVD to further study the importance of blood. I will continue to study this point further. I may not agree with EVERYTHING the Witnesses have to teach, but what if blood really isn't the best option for surgery or in a pinch.
However, I did ask Bonnie about an organ transplant. Because, as I stated in an earlier blog, there would be blood in the organ. Bonnie stated that she personally wouldn't have a transplant, because of that point. But she said there are bloodless hospitals that might have methods of transplant that she would be comfortable with. This idea of a bloodless hospital is VERY interesting to me. After all, if your faith and beliefs tell you NOT to consume blood, I believe you must also not consume anything with blood in it.
Bonnie did comment on the eating of meat (i.e. a steak that has juices in it). Truthfully I would think most Witnesses to be vegetarians, just to be on the safe side. But Bonnie said as long as the animal is bled properly, the steak would be fine to eat. I honestly think there is too much "walking the line" on this subject.
So I continue with my quest to find the truth about blood. However, I am reminded that Jesus had to give his blood (i.e. die) to save another person or persons (i.e. us). If we give blood, are we saving another person's life? Are we playing God?
Friday, August 6, 2010
a question of blood
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For many weeks now I am reminded of what I don't like about the Jehovah Witness "truth". One of those things is their beliefs on blood.
There are three main parts to the "blood" beliefs.
1) Blood is sacred to Jehovah. It is life. It can only be used to atonement of sins.
Okay, I get it. Blood is our special life force. However, the Witnesses get blood tests and have surgeries. In the surgeries they don't accept blood, but they lose blood I'm sure. So according to Jehovah's word we must save the blood for him, but what about testing it (removing a set amount) and surgeries (in which loss of blood is eminent)?
2) Blood must not be eaten.
Okay, again...makes sense. But are we EATING blood when we get a transfusion? It's not like we are being all vampire on the stuff. And we are taking care of our bodies, which were given by Jehovah. If He would be okay with testing the blood or surgeries to save our lives, why not blood to sustain our lives?
3) Blood must be properly disposed.
And as a society, we do properly bleed our animals. I wonder if the Witnesses eat kosher or halal meat, which is blessed too. Hell, why not do away with meat all together!
So are the rest of us "Christians" or "Jews" or "Muslims" totally missing this scripture in the Bible. After all two of the three scriptures are in the Old Testament, Hebrew, or Tanak versions of the Bible.
Genesis 9:3-4; Leviticus 17:13-14; Acts 15:28-29 are the verses that Jehovah's Witnesses reference from when stating they won't take transfusions. But in all honesty the scriptures only speak of EATING the blood.
Bonnie and I will be discussing more about this topic on Wednesday, but I will definitely be bringing up organ transplants. If blood is an organ, and blood travels through organs...why do Jehovah's Witnesses accept organ donations?
For many weeks now I am reminded of what I don't like about the Jehovah Witness "truth". One of those things is their beliefs on blood.
There are three main parts to the "blood" beliefs.
1) Blood is sacred to Jehovah. It is life. It can only be used to atonement of sins.
Okay, I get it. Blood is our special life force. However, the Witnesses get blood tests and have surgeries. In the surgeries they don't accept blood, but they lose blood I'm sure. So according to Jehovah's word we must save the blood for him, but what about testing it (removing a set amount) and surgeries (in which loss of blood is eminent)?
2) Blood must not be eaten.
Okay, again...makes sense. But are we EATING blood when we get a transfusion? It's not like we are being all vampire on the stuff. And we are taking care of our bodies, which were given by Jehovah. If He would be okay with testing the blood or surgeries to save our lives, why not blood to sustain our lives?
3) Blood must be properly disposed.
And as a society, we do properly bleed our animals. I wonder if the Witnesses eat kosher or halal meat, which is blessed too. Hell, why not do away with meat all together!
So are the rest of us "Christians" or "Jews" or "Muslims" totally missing this scripture in the Bible. After all two of the three scriptures are in the Old Testament, Hebrew, or Tanak versions of the Bible.
Genesis 9:3-4; Leviticus 17:13-14; Acts 15:28-29 are the verses that Jehovah's Witnesses reference from when stating they won't take transfusions. But in all honesty the scriptures only speak of EATING the blood.
Bonnie and I will be discussing more about this topic on Wednesday, but I will definitely be bringing up organ transplants. If blood is an organ, and blood travels through organs...why do Jehovah's Witnesses accept organ donations?
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
simple doesn't mean stupid
When I think of a simple person, I think of one that is ignorant, foolish, or gullible. But what if I said Jesus was a simple man?
I went to the Kingdom Hall last night for their Tuesday night meeting. The first hour was a book study on "Come Be My Follower," which of course is a Jehovah Witness publication. However, the study last night was the section about what Jesus preached.
Of course most Christians can tell you that Jesus preached of his kingdom, but how was he able to do this? By keeping the right focus. Jesus never allowed himself to get side-tracked with life's problems (or as we call it THE WORLD). Jehovah's Kingdom was Jesus's focus, and his message was made clear and simple.
1 Timothy 4:16 (The Message)
15-16Cultivate these things. Immerse yourself in them. The people will all see you mature right before their eyes! Keep a firm grasp on both your character and your teaching. Don't be diverted. Just keep at it. Both you and those who hear you will experience salvation.
Do we immerse ourselves with Jehovah's teachings? Do we get distracted due to life and worldly things? Do we let man-made doctrines and traditions cloud our learning and teaching of scripture? These were all questions that were discussed in full last night.
God wants our complete devotion. How can we possibly give him our exclusive devotion if we are not living a more simple life? And simple is NOT stupid.
I have heard the saying, "Those who can't: Teach." That can't be farther from the truth, at least if you are a GOOD teacher. Teaching others is a challenge, especially when you are trying to teach them at their level. That is what Jesus was doing. He told stories (parables), he gave sermons, and he talked to people in a way they could relate. He didn't lose focus of the Kingdom, and he had a clear and simple way of illustrating the Kingdom to the masses.
It was a "wow" moment when I heard the word "simple" used to describe Jesus. I now have a very different opinion of what is simple and/or stupid.
I plan on continuing contemplation regarding the idea of simplicity in religion and in all aspects of my life.
I went to the Kingdom Hall last night for their Tuesday night meeting. The first hour was a book study on "Come Be My Follower," which of course is a Jehovah Witness publication. However, the study last night was the section about what Jesus preached.
Of course most Christians can tell you that Jesus preached of his kingdom, but how was he able to do this? By keeping the right focus. Jesus never allowed himself to get side-tracked with life's problems (or as we call it THE WORLD). Jehovah's Kingdom was Jesus's focus, and his message was made clear and simple.
1 Timothy 4:16 (The Message)
15-16Cultivate these things. Immerse yourself in them. The people will all see you mature right before their eyes! Keep a firm grasp on both your character and your teaching. Don't be diverted. Just keep at it. Both you and those who hear you will experience salvation.
Do we immerse ourselves with Jehovah's teachings? Do we get distracted due to life and worldly things? Do we let man-made doctrines and traditions cloud our learning and teaching of scripture? These were all questions that were discussed in full last night.
God wants our complete devotion. How can we possibly give him our exclusive devotion if we are not living a more simple life? And simple is NOT stupid.
I have heard the saying, "Those who can't: Teach." That can't be farther from the truth, at least if you are a GOOD teacher. Teaching others is a challenge, especially when you are trying to teach them at their level. That is what Jesus was doing. He told stories (parables), he gave sermons, and he talked to people in a way they could relate. He didn't lose focus of the Kingdom, and he had a clear and simple way of illustrating the Kingdom to the masses.
It was a "wow" moment when I heard the word "simple" used to describe Jesus. I now have a very different opinion of what is simple and/or stupid.
I plan on continuing contemplation regarding the idea of simplicity in religion and in all aspects of my life.
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
the 9 attributes of Jehovah
Today I learned about the 9 attributes Jehovah LOVES about us.
They are:
1) Love
2) Joy
3) Peace
4) Patience
5) Kindness
6) Goodness
7) Faith
8) Gentleness
9) Self-Control
This list is based on Galatians 5:22, 23 that states:
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.
#4 in the Witness Bible - New World Translation of the Holy Scriptures - is long suffering; and #8 is mildness. I personally understand patience more than I can wrap my head around long-suffering. When I think of suffering I picture a starving animal with a bleeding limb as it limps around the street. But Bonnie told me that long-suffering has to do with the Beatitude: "Blessed are those that have been persecuted for righteousness sake, since the kingdom of the heavens belongs to them."
Rather than physically suffering with ailments left and right, to be patient regardless of the daily trials is what God wants of us. God LOVES these 9 attributes.
Of course, in past weeks I have been taught what Jehovah HATES. Yes, the Witnesses use the word, HATE, to describe how Jehovah feels when we act certain ways. Here are the 14:
1) Killing
2) Sexual Immorality
3) Spiritism
4) Idolatry
5) Drunkenness
6) Stealing
7) Lying
8) Greed
9) Violence
10) Improper Speech
11) Misuse of blood
12) Refusal to provide for ones family
13) Participation in wars or political controversies of this world
14) Use of tobacco or so-called recreational drugs
So some of the above seem "obvious," and yet others (like the one about blood) seem a bit different that what most have grown up with. Murder and Stealing can land you in jail, and Lying (purjery), Drunkenness, Drug Use, and Violence can put you there too. However, smoking (cigars or cigarettes), refusal to participate in wars or politics, improper speech, "white" lying, sexual conduct, spiritism, and idolatry are not aspects our society reprimands. Of course our society (unlike many believe) was NOT founded by Christians (but that is another story for another time).
Whether you live by the 9 aspects or the Beatitudes, it still seems almost impossible to be a "good" Christian person. To uphold Jehovah's desires is really quite difficult in today's world. Maybe that's why the Witnesses seem to different to us.
They are:
1) Love
2) Joy
3) Peace
4) Patience
5) Kindness
6) Goodness
7) Faith
8) Gentleness
9) Self-Control
This list is based on Galatians 5:22, 23 that states:
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.
#4 in the Witness Bible - New World Translation of the Holy Scriptures - is long suffering; and #8 is mildness. I personally understand patience more than I can wrap my head around long-suffering. When I think of suffering I picture a starving animal with a bleeding limb as it limps around the street. But Bonnie told me that long-suffering has to do with the Beatitude: "Blessed are those that have been persecuted for righteousness sake, since the kingdom of the heavens belongs to them."
Rather than physically suffering with ailments left and right, to be patient regardless of the daily trials is what God wants of us. God LOVES these 9 attributes.
Of course, in past weeks I have been taught what Jehovah HATES. Yes, the Witnesses use the word, HATE, to describe how Jehovah feels when we act certain ways. Here are the 14:
1) Killing
2) Sexual Immorality
3) Spiritism
4) Idolatry
5) Drunkenness
6) Stealing
7) Lying
8) Greed
9) Violence
10) Improper Speech
11) Misuse of blood
12) Refusal to provide for ones family
13) Participation in wars or political controversies of this world
14) Use of tobacco or so-called recreational drugs
So some of the above seem "obvious," and yet others (like the one about blood) seem a bit different that what most have grown up with. Murder and Stealing can land you in jail, and Lying (purjery), Drunkenness, Drug Use, and Violence can put you there too. However, smoking (cigars or cigarettes), refusal to participate in wars or politics, improper speech, "white" lying, sexual conduct, spiritism, and idolatry are not aspects our society reprimands. Of course our society (unlike many believe) was NOT founded by Christians (but that is another story for another time).
Whether you live by the 9 aspects or the Beatitudes, it still seems almost impossible to be a "good" Christian person. To uphold Jehovah's desires is really quite difficult in today's world. Maybe that's why the Witnesses seem to different to us.
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
healing to your navel and a refreshment to your bones
At my Bible study this morning a fantastic scripture passage was read:
Proverbs 3:5 - 10 (New World Translation)
Trust in Jehovah with all your heart and do not lean upon your own understand. In all your ways take notice of him and he himself will make your paths straight. Do not become wise in your own eyes. Fear Jehovah and turn away from bad. May it become a healing to your navel and a refreshment to your bones. Honor Jehovah with your valuable things and with the first fruits of all your produce. Then your stores of supply will be filled with plenty and; and with new wine your own press vats will overflow.
The 5th verse of this chapter, which starts with "may it become a healing," really spoke to me. I have heard the verse "trust in God with all your heart..." before, but the idea of having Jehovah heal your existence is very powerful indeed. What a powerful idea: that God can heal us spiritually and physically. And as a mom I am very aware of the connection of the navel (belly button or bebo if you are Boynton fan like I), and I quickly said to Bonnie and Norma, "OOHH! The navel! What is left over from the umbilical cord after a baby is born! This must mean life!" Norma said, "I never thought about that before!" So when Norma was saying the final prayer, she said she is blessed that she doesn't just get to teach to me, but that she learns something too!
The idea of the navel is very primitive. We knew we were different than a fish, or a bird, or a snake early on. We were born from our mothers womb and connected to her by the beautiful life sustaining cord. I love finding little gems like this in scripture. Whether you believe the Bible is inspired by God, or if you believe it is just a "book," it still contains beautiful prose. Especially in Psalms, Proverbs and Ecclesiastes.
Do I put God first? Probably not like I should. Should I have a reverence for him? Yes. I must do my best to work on this in my journey.
Proverbs 3:5 - 10 (New World Translation)
Trust in Jehovah with all your heart and do not lean upon your own understand. In all your ways take notice of him and he himself will make your paths straight. Do not become wise in your own eyes. Fear Jehovah and turn away from bad. May it become a healing to your navel and a refreshment to your bones. Honor Jehovah with your valuable things and with the first fruits of all your produce. Then your stores of supply will be filled with plenty and; and with new wine your own press vats will overflow.
The 5th verse of this chapter, which starts with "may it become a healing," really spoke to me. I have heard the verse "trust in God with all your heart..." before, but the idea of having Jehovah heal your existence is very powerful indeed. What a powerful idea: that God can heal us spiritually and physically. And as a mom I am very aware of the connection of the navel (belly button or bebo if you are Boynton fan like I), and I quickly said to Bonnie and Norma, "OOHH! The navel! What is left over from the umbilical cord after a baby is born! This must mean life!" Norma said, "I never thought about that before!" So when Norma was saying the final prayer, she said she is blessed that she doesn't just get to teach to me, but that she learns something too!
The idea of the navel is very primitive. We knew we were different than a fish, or a bird, or a snake early on. We were born from our mothers womb and connected to her by the beautiful life sustaining cord. I love finding little gems like this in scripture. Whether you believe the Bible is inspired by God, or if you believe it is just a "book," it still contains beautiful prose. Especially in Psalms, Proverbs and Ecclesiastes.
Do I put God first? Probably not like I should. Should I have a reverence for him? Yes. I must do my best to work on this in my journey.
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